Thursday, September 8, 2011

The most common silly girl problem

when people complain about their miserable life, and how the world could not get any worse… WHY can’t people be happy? the world could be a lot worse, more than half the world's population is poor, homeless, hungry, deathly ill, have cancer, lose a parent or family member. I know I am thankful that I do not live with this stress on my shoulders, but I feel many teenagers in today's society take advantage of what they have. With social media sites such as facebook, twitter, and tumblr, it is very easy to rant about the life you are living, sadly I often see pictures reblogged on tumblr that deal with depression. The quotes on these pictures range from "Without you I am nothing" or "I would die before I let you go". Mostly, these post come from girls complaining about boys in their life, or relationship issues. These are not problems that should be resolved with suicide. You have so much to live for, like your family, imagine what your parents would feel like if you were no longer in their life. Many girls do this to grasp the attention of others and make people feel sympathetic for them, its not funny, its not cute, it will not attract people to you, it will drive them away. The most common silly girl problem — the definition of “boy” in the dictionary does not say —reason to cry, not eat, not leave your house and complain for weeks even months on end. Sometimes you need to just let go, and move on . It scares me that sometimes I ask myself, is it that hard to be content? is it strange that I'm always happy, and if I am in a bad mood that I could laugh and smile 5 mins later? Its just not worth it, life is great and people need to realize that, I could have fun in the worst situation if I'm with any one of my friends. Your friends and family need you to BE YOU. I laugh off every problem I’m ever faced with...and that's exactly what makes it okay, the next day you will still be here breathing and able to smile, you’ll never lose your smile, and the world needs to remember that, just be happy please its really sad to see girls cry and be depressed and stressed out over the silliest, dumbest “problems”  BE HAPPY, it is NOT that hard I promise.